Testimonials

    

It may be difficult to believe that even a few days of group work can create radical changes in one’s life. But usually, the concept of “external time” also gets locked outside once you enter the workshop space. Once energy is diverted to the inside, to insight, to awareness, your internal time replaces the external time that normally manipulates you. The workshops, which involve a journey to deep inside us, condense several days, months or even years (worth of experience) into a more limited time. Here is a small sampling of testimonials from past workshop participants, be they individuals or members of corporations. Some have just started the journey, some have completed the whole series.
Helena Michaelis: For me this was a very positive experience at the very beginning. The warm and friendly atmosphere of the place created an environment where I knew I would be able to open up and be honest. The activities provided me with many different things to think on and opened my eyes to many things I’d been trying to avoid. The constant support yet openness and honesty of Saim and Nil was very constructive and inspiring. I never expected to come away from the workshop feeling so motivated and ready for change. I’m ready. Thank you.

OTDÜ/English Instructor (26) Participated in the Following: Improve Communication with Self and Others

Dogan Ozdem: Every workshop that I attended has changed my life in some way, but Your Shadow / Your Light was a cut above the rest. I saw that the other workshops really sunk in after taking Your Shadow / Your Light. You gave us the greatest gift of all: ourselves. Now that the barriers have been removed from in front of us, we are unstoppable. You showed me that life is full of dualities, that where there is good, there is also evil, that bravery and cowardice lurk together, and that happiness and sorrow are close friends. The lessons about life we have learned here will grow through practice; the diamond in us will shine brighter everyday and it will cast its light afar. The light will also reach others because that’s our mission-to be catalysts for the improvement of those around us too. For the love and knowledge you have shared, for the awareness you have instilled in us, for the friendships you have engendered, and most importantly for teaching us to enjoy life, I am indebted to you, Nil and Saim. Love and thanks to all the friends with whom I shared everything. Thanks for being there.

Sony/Director of Marketing (35) Participated in the Following: Improve Communication with Self and Others, Enlightened Man-Woman Relationships, Enhancing Self-Esteem, Meeting the SELF, NLP, Your Shadow / Your Light

Zeynep Ozagac: I learned to face deep, inner truths that I didn’t know even existed. Each and every exercise has a twist to it, and behind each twist is a deeper meaning. From now on, I won’t just be judging myself differently, I will judge everyone-even people with whom I have superficial relations-differently. I will be able to take my relationships to a different level because I understand them and also myself better. Both life and I will be more fun, informed, sophisticated, and deep. Every investment I make in myself and thinking harder about deeper meanings will take me that much closer to a better version of me. Each thought, every effort is for “a better Zeynep, and thus a better life!” Thank you.

IBM Turk Inc. (28) – Participated in the Following: Improve Communication with Self and Others, Enlightened Man-Woman Relationships

Ali Bersis: These workshops took from me all the weapons with which I attacked others. The lessons learned here will last a lifetime. These lessons have cleared the path from my brain to my heart, my fists are no longer clenched. We learned what it is to love and to forgive. We gave and received a lot. The workshop was like a spell. The exercises shed light on me. The light will continue to increase. Thank you all very much. Nil and Saim, I hug you with love.

Employee at the Consulate of Netherlands (57) Participated in the Following: Improve Communication with Self and Others, Enlightened Man-Woman Relationships, Enhancing Self-Esteem, Meeting the SELF, NLP, Your Shadow / Your Light

Dear Nil and Saim,
I can’t seem to describe or recognize my feelings since my husband joined your workshops. The peace and love in his eyes shining like light. This light surrounds my being. I keep crying with happiness. I can’t believe my feelings, just enjoying them. It is not possible to describe with words. The tranformation in him, the peace I feel is so incredible, I just wanted to share my joy and happiness with you.
I will be joining the workshops ASAP and become part of your large family.
A wife of a participant

Elvan Demircioglu: Each experience I’ve been through with you is magnificent. I embarked on this journey last year and I never want it to end. As you always say, happiness is not a destination, it is the path. And it is wonderful to know you are by my side on this path. Thank you for being here.

IBM Turk / (42) – Participated in the Following: NLP, Improve Communication with Self and Others, Enlightened Man-Woman Relationships, Enhancing Self-Esteem, Your Shadow / Your Light, Meeting the SELF

Ufuk Aksu: The workshops really make you aware of the importance of life, and the need to make careful and informed decisions. I can say that the workshops were very informative and masterfully delivered. Thank you.

IBM Turk Inc. (34) – Participated in the Following: Improve Communication with Self and Others, Enlightened Man-Woman Relationships

Hakan Cetinkaya: Don’t deprive yourself of the satisfaction of breaking your mind’s shackles, and traveling in the underground tunnels of your spirit.

IBM Turk Inc. (32) – Participated in the Following: Improve Communication with Self and Others, Enlightened Man-Woman Relationships

Ferah Kok: Dear Nil and Saim; I don’t yet know what’s hidden deep inside me in the dark corners; I have just found the doors. But it’s thanks to you that I’ve decided to open them. I had always been afraid to do so; here, I found the courage. My life will definitely be more colorful from now on. Thank you.

IBM Turk Inc. (44) – Participated in the Following: Improve Communication with Self and Others, Enlightened Man-Woman Relationships

Erhan Umit Karamehmetoglu: Thanks to you, I had 4 very valuable and meaningful days. You made me experience “emotion.” How much I had needed this. To experience sorrow, to share others’ sorrow, to laugh, to listen, to learn. In my mind’s eye, I am hugging you. Many kisses.

IBM Turk Inc. (43) – Participated in the Following: Improve Communication with Self and Others, Enlightened Man-Woman Relationships

Ismail Cayir: An exceptional workshop. Must participate if one wants to be aware of life. The atmosphere is so warm. Many thanks to those involved in its preparation.
IBM Turk Inc. (39) – Participated in the Following: Improve Communication with Self and Others, Enlightened Man-Woman Relationships

Serkan Sahin: If I were to use the analogy of education for the life we live, I would summarize my thoughts on education as: “gaining awareness into life;” as an emotional and unique individual who has embarked on a journey of awareness into his inner world, I would define it as “a journey in the ocean of my inner world.” Dear Nil and Saim, I hope I will be an unforgettable man, and a traveler with whom to cross paths again. I love you.
IBM Turk Inc. (31) – Participated in the Following: Improve Communication with Self and Others, Enlightened Man-Woman Relationships

Sekure Arslanoglu: I discovered a facet of myself that I had never noticed, or perhaps never acknowledged: my “addiction.” My worldview has changed. I believe I am on the way to analyzing myself and my surroundings, and being able to reach a synthesis regarding both.
IBM Turk Ltd, Sti. / IT Consultant (30) – Participated in the Following: Improve Communication with Self and Others, Enlightened Man-Woman Relationships

Aysegul Soyalp Eryeler: These were fun, thought provoking, and influential workshops on better understanding the self, improving the quality of life, awareness and change. The rest is up to us!!!
IBM Turk Inc. / Sales Operations Expert (36) – Participated in the Following: Improve Communication with Self and Others, Enlightened Man-Woman Relationships

Sibel Ayaz: Dear Nil and Saim, you’ve contributed to my understanding of myself, increased my awareness, and helped me develop myself; thank you very much. You’ve left a lasting impression on me! I will continue walking along this path: to increase my level of understanding and to be the best possible version of me. I am filled with love. Let’s do all we can so that as many people can be illuminated by your light as possible!
IBM Turk Inc. – Participated in the Following: Improve Communication with Self and Others, Enlightened Man-Woman Relationships

Dilber Karkirer: Hello Kuraldisi. Before I met you, I thought I knew myself very well; I thought others were the source of all problems, and doubted very much that I could change. These workshops have been like a life vest for me. I know there is a long way to swim ashore, but using this life vest, I know I can succeed. I am so glad I met you. I’m no longer ashamed of the mistakes I made in life. It was those mistakes that took me to you and your workshops. I always thought I knew myself. The workshops showed me how wrong I was. Thus, I took the first step towards knowing, understanding, experiencing and loving myself and those around me. I have a long road ahead of me, but it is a fun road. I love you.
Medical Doctor (33) – Participated in the Following: Improve Communication with Self and Others, Enlightened Man-Woman Relationships, Enhancing Self-Esteem

Kerim Turgut Ic: We are moving quickly towards light and brightness, but most importantly towards love. How nice it is to experience feelings, the happiness I have never felt before. How nice it is to develop oneself, to change. How nice it is to be aware. With infinite gratitude for everyone who has helped me experience this happiness here, and who will continue to do so.
Businessman (47) – Participated in the Following: NLP, Improve Communication with Self and Others

Sahin Yigit: I attended this workshop after the one on NLP, and I believe this one has contributed to my development as much as the first. I learned that it is not easy to change your counterpart in a relationship, and that you connect with them based on how you react to certain events. This was a very important insight for me. I think it will be much more useful when I attend this workshop with my wife. See you at the next workshop. I love you.
Cagri Engineering (40) – Participated in the Following: NLP, Improve Communication with Self and Others, Enlightened Man-Woman Relationships

Serdar Iskit: Dear Kuraldisi, again, thank you a thousand times. I first attended this workshop two years ago. Now, on the second go, I felt the same thrill the whole way through. There were mistakes I did not repeat: these are indicative of the difference this training has made and of the miracles of the keys of change you have extended; there were mistakes I did repeat, these remind me that there is still mud in the bucket that needs to be dumped out. I believe that these workshops alone-if more people attended them-would solve half of the problems we experience today. Dear Saim and Nil, you are two halves of one apple-two enlightened souls who have dedicated themselves to the progress of humankind, and chosen to walk towards the light.
Pediatric Surgeon (42) – Participated in the Following: NLP, Improve Communication with Self and Others (2), Enlightened Man-Woman Relationships, Enhancing Self-Esteem, Meeting The Self

Sema Iskit: Nil and Saim, I would like to begin by extending my warmest greetings to you. Again, we have had two fun and fulfilling days. Again, we have made a worthy investment. We have shared the nurturing and bonding energy of love. By sharing with us the light in you, you have led the way in this journey of ours towards the self. You put me on a transatlantic. When I thought I had forgotten how to swim, you showed me that I was able to do different strokes. Getting to know how strong I was gave me myself, you, him, the universe, and the first day of a new life. On this first day, my courage is high, ready to embrace all the winds. How lucky we are to have you. May your love, productivity and sharing spirit be eternal.
Pediatric Surgeon (35) – Participated in the Following: NLP, Improve Communication with Self and Others (2), Enlightened Man-Woman Relationships, Enhancing Self-Esteem, Meeting The Self

Ebru Apaydin: A very warm, comfortable atmosphere, a brim-full educational program. During all phases of the workshop Nil and Saim did all they could for our maximum betterment. The education here is better and more powerful and comprehensive than any personal growth programs or books. All workshop participants are treasures onto themselves. With the help of the feedback I got during this workshop, I will practice what I have learned and apply them in real life. I will also attend the self-esteem workshop at my earliest convenience. Nil and Saim, thank you for all your help. Always be with love.
Civil Engineer (32) – Participated in the Following: Improve Communication with Self and Others

Meryem Bagis: This was a one-time experience in my life. I had never been so strong, so myself before. Had it not been for this experience, I could never have felt whole, there would definitely have been some lacking part. Here, I multiplied; I became stronger. This was a fun workshop full of surprises. I wish everyone I know could attend. That way, the world would be a better place.
IBM Turk (27) – Participated in the Following: Improve Communication with Self and Others, Enlightened Man-Woman Relationships

Baver Cenkci: The education here helps you become aware of yourself and your potential. Here, you find yourself, and the love in you. What sets the workshop apart is that it teaches you by doing that your uniqueness can only be experienced, not learned. I like this place, I like me in this place.
IMB Turk / Sales Support Expert (26) – Participated in the Following: Improve Communication with Self and Others, Enlightened Man-Woman Relationships

Sedef Nazli: The greatest experience of my life. I had tremendous fun, I experienced self-development, I learned what it is to share. I learned to care for the important people in my life (my husband, my child, my parents, my friends). I reclaimed my closest friends; I was enriched. I thank Nil and Saim many, many times for the care that they have given us.
IBM Turk / Industrial Engineer (37) – Participated in the Following: Improve Communication with Self and Others, Enlightened Man-Woman Relationships

Mert Atayurt: You opened windows for me-windows I can use to understand myself and to deal with the world. Thank you. I will forever be indebted to you. I will pay back my debts by using your methods. I have realized that I can develop myself so long as I keep myself accountable, and that my potential was way higher than I had thought. I have discovered the inner treasures of this rich creature called the “human being” and added to my own inner treasures. My thanks also go to the other participants.
IBM Turk (46) – Participated in the Following: Improve Communication with Self and Others, Enlightened Man-Woman Relationships

Cigdem Gungorur: This is not an “all-show” workshop. It is a mirror that shows life itself-a mirror that shows it is easier and better to understand me by questioning me. Four days ago, someone different entered through the door. This evening, a different WOMAN will be exiting. From now on, I will use my energy to change myself, not the world. Thank you for the investment you made in yourself in order to contribute to humankind. Thank you for showing me how to hug, touch and look someone in the eye. I am so lucky to have you. Until next time.
IBM Turk / Acquisitions Department (32) – Participated in the Following: Improve Communication with Self and Others, Enlightened Man-Woman Relationships

Dilek Lule: There are important milestones in one’s life. For me, this workshop was one of those. It is really unbelievable that I could learn in such short time things I would usually learn through trial and error and by experiencing a lot of pain. The discovery of the self is like reading a very exciting book. You just can’t put it down. I cannot think of anyone who won’t want to change after attending this workshop. And to realize that change depends on their will to do so. The friendships made here are like valuable treasures. Being so close with people who until then had been complete strangers in such a short time is something only attendees of this workshop can understand: it is so deep and beautiful. This is a movie you can only experience if you go to the theatre, and you will never be able to forget it once you see it.
IBM Turk / Sales Manager (38) – Participated in the Following: Improve Communication with Self and Others, Enlightened Man-Woman Relationships

Bingul Asal: Firstly, I’d like to express how very, very, very . happy I am to have participated in this workshop, that it was nothing like, and much more useful than any educational experience before. I wish I had come to this workshop much earlier. It is a workshop that will affect my private and business life; it will change the way I look at life itself, people, and my relations with them; it is a workshop that has created important awarenesses and which I believe will “increase my quality.” It is a workshop everyone who says, “I am a human being, I am an individual,” should attend. Another very important outcome of this workshop is that other fellow participants are now very valuable and unique friends for me. It is miraculous that such strong friendships can be established in only four days. I would like to thank my director (at IBM) who sent me to this workshop, and I would like to thank Saim and Nil very, very much.
IBM Turk / Engineer (36) – Participated in the Following: Improve Communication with Self and Others, Enlightened Man-Woman Relationships

Figen Gurcuoglu Okanlar: I became interested in these workshops because my friends who had attended couldn’t stop talking about them. But I would never have thought I could become so aware of myself and my life and face my inner self so deeply. I feel settled down and purified; I feel I am a winner, and have been won; I feel ready to develop myself. And I wish this last day of the workshop would never end. But, as Nil and Saim say, the real education is out there, in life. Nil, Saim, and the friends I made here will always be; I will never let them out of my life. Thank you, my friends, thank you Nil and Saim. I love you.
IBM Turk / Sales Support (32) – Participated in the Following: Improve Communication with Self and Others, Enlightened Man-Woman Relationships

Sevgi Gurbuz: The topics of this workshop were very satisfying. The exercises were effective, and were varied and comprehensive enough to make understanding easy. They have accomplished their aim which is to start the process of self-awareness in us. Speaking for myself, I learned a lot. Be it in my relations with others, or my relation with the self, I have learned not to live “as if,” and to “make do.” I have learned to be true and sincere. I believe the quality of my life from now on will be better. Nil and Saim, as teachers, you are marvelous. And as human beings, I am so glad to have met you. Especially in my relations with my spouse, you will be my role models.
IBM Turk (45) – Participated in the Following: Improve Communication with Self and Others, Enlightened Man-Woman Relationships

Cem Ozkarsli: I would like to extend my thanks to Nil Gun and Saim Koc who have nurtured us in a perfect atmosphere for two days. I hope everyone has the opportunity to attend these workshops. I love you very much.
Psychologist / Music Teacher (44) – Participated in the Following: Improve Communication with Self and Others

Nese Ozkarsli: Never in my life have I learned while having so much fun. I had a lot of fun, and I learned a lot.
Psychologist (42) – Participated in the Following: NLP, Improve Communication with Self and Others, Enlightened Man-Woman Relationships, Enhancing Self-Esteem

Burcu Kose: You are my guides in my journey to finding myself. You light my way, warm me inside. I love you.
Psychologist (27) – Participated in the Following: NLP, Improve Communication with Self and Others, Enlightened Man-Woman Relationships, Enhancing Self-Esteem, awareness

Nevzat Koc: They say communication is an art. Here, you showed us that communication is not only an art, it is life itself. Thank you very much for making us better communicators, thus making our lives richer and more colorful.
Obstetrician / Gynecologist (37) – Participated in the Following: Improve Communication with Self and Others, Enlightened Man-Woman Relationships, Enhancing Self-Esteem, Meeting The Self, Your Shadow / Your Light

Vildan Nuhoglu: Among the classes I’ve taken so far, this is by far the most advanced in terms of teaching one about the self, and ways in which to understand others. Because of the intense atmosphere, it was easy to connect with other participants and with the instructors. I found answers to experiences in life that I thought were unique to me. By sharing experiences with people who were having the same sorts of problems (even if they had quite different personalities), we created an example microcosm. The quality of instruction was beyond my expectations, and was very enjoyable. This workshop could equally well be called Learning while Having Fun.
Cargill / Forwarder (28) – Participated in the Following: Improve Communication with Self and Others

Elif Ozdamar: The most poignant phrase in these classes was, “Real improvement is to turn your weaknesses into strengths.” When I think about this phrase, I realize that I am at the start of this journey, and I feel thrilled. This is a thrill born out of the realization that this will be a very rich and fun journey, thanks to coaches like Nil and Saim. Hoping to see you again in other workshops soon. Remain happy and with love. Thank you.
Cargill / Logistics – Participated in the Following: Improve Communication with Self and Others

Cem Filiz: It is amazing that this workshop-aimed at improving the self-has left such a lasting impression on me in a period as short as two days. It clearly shows how superficial our social relations are, and how they can be improved. I feel like I got to know the people in my group much better than if I had known them for years. Thank you for helping us determine our relationship with life, and the means through which we can improve ourselves. Cargill / Environmental Engineer. (25) – Participated in the Following: Improve Communication with Self and Others

Hulya Guven: This workshop has given me a lot of insight into events that I have experienced, as well as others that I could not have easily experienced (as related as they are to life itself). I think this is a unique workshop insofar as it creates awareness in people, and leads them to discover new things about themselves. My life now has two parts: before the workshop and after the workshop. I realized how sloppy and aimless my life before the workshop was. I am certain that the quality of my life will improve now that I have started to incorporate into my life the things I have learned here. Nil and Saim, you are my heroes. Thank you.
IBM Turk / Sales Support (28) – Participated in the Following: Improve Communication with Self and Others, Enlightened Man-Woman Relationships

Mujdat Timurcin: In my quest to remove the self-imposed barriers that I placed in my way, I am indebted to Nil Gun and Saim Koc. They have offered their guidance and help for me to clear the way. Of course, this was only possible through the secure environment they provided and with the input and sincerity of the other participants. I thank them too. I am also congratulating myself for having decided to participate in this workshop, and being able to open myself up without restraint.
IBM Turk / Product Manager (43) – Participated in the Following: Improve Communication with Self and Others, Enlightened Man-Woman Relationships

Tamer Sonmez: You’ve shown me things about myself that I knew nothing about. Even in these short 4 days, I saw what a great relief it is to open oneself up; it gives you a great sense of security and comfort. Being in a group and doing the kinds of exercises we did made it easier for me to get to know Me-the inner self in me. I was led to seeing the weaknesses I had. I will use what I have learned here to live a more peaceful life. Thank you.
IBM Turk (35) – Participated in the Following: Improve Communication with Self and Others, Enlightened Man-Woman Relationships

Ayhan Eser: We didn’t run away. When you said this could hurt, I didn’t know what you meant. But each time I felt the pain, a new awareness developed inside me. I had received bits and fragments of feedback from others before (I hadn’t heeded them much), but now I realize what this has cost me. You and the friends here have helped me realize this. As a friend said, I will try so that my life can now have two distinct phases-before the workshop and after the workshop. Through the crack in the wall, I will slip through so I can reach my self. There I will find the love that I have inside, and I will try to gaze outside, full of love. I will no longer limit myself fearing what others will think. I will try to live my emotions more freely.
IBM Turk (37) – Participated in the Following: Improve Communication with Self and Others, Enlightened Man-Woman Relationships

Ebru Aran: What can I say? It’s so great that you are offering these classes; it’s so great that you’re the teachers; I am so glad I participated; I am so glad 15 other bright business associates attended too. By the end of these four days, I knew you, my friends, and myself much better, and I loved all of them more. I have gained great insight into myself, and I believe this will affect me for the rest of my life. I will continue struggling to reduce negative awarenesses till they disappear. My only wish is to keep these ideals inside me alive, and to always preserve them. I love myself, you, and my friends.
IBM Turk / Computer Engineer (37) – Participated in the Following: Improve Communication with Self and Others, Enlightened Man-Woman Relationships

Ethem Ozgecen: You have steered my life and thoughts in new directions. I have made very valuable friends. My perspective on life has changed, I have gotten to know this thing called the human being more intimately. You have added to my values. Thank you, my friends.
IBM Turk / Project Manager (49) – Participated in the Following: Improve Communication with Self and Others, Enlightened Man-Woman Relationships

Aylin Kentkuran: You’ve given me a lot. Thank you for everything. Especially for your friendship and your warmness.
IBM Turk / Sales Support (35) – Participated in the Following: Improve Communication with Self and Others, Enlightened Man-Woman Relationships

Arzu Soykan: You have changed me tremendously in just 4 days. I am indebted to you for helping me experience so much awareness in such a short time. Believe me, I will practice all I have learned the best I can to become a person who experiences and beholds love. You are very nice people. I too am a nice person. Nice people will always be together, so I won’t say farewell. See you soon. I love you very much.
IBM Turk / Human Resources (39) – Participated in the Following: Improve Communication with Self and Others, Enlightened Man-Woman Relationships

Kerem Secilmis: I’ve discovered myself. I’ve learned to see the best in others. What more do I need? From now on, my life will have two phases: before the workshop and after the workshop. After the workshop = happiness, peace, self-confidence.
IBM Turk / Tender Manager (27) – Participated in the Following: Improve Communication with Self and Others, Enlightened Man-Woman Relationships

Levent Durdu: I cannot find anything to criticize in this training program. Everything’s wonderful. I am very thankful to you; you’ve made an enormous contribution to my development.
IBM Turk (39) – Participated in the Following: Improve Communication with Self and Others, Enlightened Man-Woman Relationships

Aysu Seven: I wish no one in the world actually needed to attend these workshops… But in our fast-paced world, we lose our most treasured values. Without knowing it, we push away the very sources of life: love, friendship, and even ourselves. I’ve had 4, “tailor-made” days in which to understand myself better, and to find love again for the universe and all beings in it. I wish everyone I know and don’t know could attend this.
IBM Turk / Customer Representative (37) – Participated in the Following: Improve Communication with Self and Others, Enlightened Man-Woman Relationships

Betul Guler Ertan: Never experienced anything like this before. Being so cognizant of myself; loving, fighting, clashing, being sad, being happy, being aware and being the real me. You helped me be me. Most important of all, you helped me take steps in that direction. Perhaps these were 48 hours devoted solely to thinking about myself; something I had never done before. The hours during which I discovered things about the other 15 people in my group will always remain in my memory as the most emotionally charged. But, as a result of this workshop, I will put my mind and heart together, and do the best I can to develop myself. Thank you so, so much. I love you a lot.
IBM Turk / Business Administrator (33) – Participated in the Following: Improve Communication with Self and Others, Enlightened Man-Woman Relationships

Serhan Algim: It is very surprising, and equally exciting, for someone who is 30 years old to find out that there is still so much they do not know about themselves. We realize that we have locked ourselves into cages in a world where infinite richness exists. Thank you so much for teaching me how to develop myself boundlessly, and to find inner richness. This is my suggestion to all who are thinking of attending the workshops: when you come here, leave behind all you have experienced till then, and also all your prejudices. Life treats you only as kindly as you treat it. This is what I have realized. Thanks.
Gillette (29) Participated in the Following: Improve Communication with Self and Others – Enlightened Man-Woman Relationships

Erdinc Deris: The workshops definitely met my expectations; you deserve every penny you charge. The knowledge given is deep, you’ve prepared well. The exercises are rich, practical, educational, and fluent. The methods you use are soothing-sitting on the floor without shoes and with no dress code.
Gillette/ Training Department – Participated in the Following: Improve Communication with Self and Others – Enlightened Man-Woman Relationships

Murat Demirhan: These two workshops constitute the “most useful” training I have had so far. I was incredibly envious of and happy for two people whose primary goal was to make others happy, and to provide services in that regard. When I think about people who have done good things for me in the past, I have feelings of love, and, if they are far away, feelings of longing for them. That is how I will feel about Nil and Saim. In these workshops, I began to get to know myself. I realized that I held within the answers to many of the questions I had been asking for a long time. I was introduced to the incredibly valuable concept called “awareness.” I learned to question my life, and what is more important, not to be afraid of doing this. I signed a peace treaty with myself. This is also the light at the end of the tunnel for those I know with similar problems. I will urge them to attend these workshops. My morale is high. I now better understand love. But I also know that there is still a long way to go. I will go that way with the guidance of Kuraldisi: with their books, audio tapes, and workshops. This is going to be a great journey. The journey of my life.
Gillette / Chief of Sales (25) Participated in the Following : Improve Communication with Self and Others – Enlightened Man-Woman Relationships

Atalay Burak: I’m only 26, I’ve been married for 2 years, and have barely been in professional life for 5. It’s surprising to discover that the daily grind and stresses were wearing me so thin-making me unhappy. These classes have helped me to slow down and wait so that my spirit could catch up. From now on, I will be much happier with my wife, whom I love, and my job, which I find satisfying.
Gillette (26) Participated in the Following : Improve Communication with Self and Others – Enlightened Man-Woman Relationships

Kenan Kaya: I had never thought this could be so much fun. Every passing day was really more fun and productive than the one before. Till now, I had not analyzed or even properly questioned what I had not been able to learn or know in life, and thus had little idea if I was doing them correctly. Here, you taught me how I view things, and gave me the capacity to evaluate, question, and to change things. I learned what it is to have an opinion, to question myself and to decide only after that. Thank you for giving me the opportunity to be with warm, friendly, sympathetic, cheerful, and loving people for 4 days. There is really nothing to criticize, everything was perfect.
Gillette / Chief of Sales (39) Participated in the Following : Improve Communication with Self and Others – Enlightened Man-Woman Relationships

Gamze Pekyalcin: This is a 4-day adventure that shakes you to the bones, makes you question everything, widens your horizons, and emboldens you in your quest to find the self; it is well organized and masterfully administered. Sometimes this adventure scares you: “Take one more step, and you will fall,” it says, but the thrill of discovering something new negates the fear. The treasure of resurrection is worth a million falls. The generous hearts that shared with us the most prized pieces in their treasure, and also years’ worth of experience, have reached into the depths of our hearts and kindled our desire to find our treasures. I know there is no turning back; the further I wish to go, the more I must work. The saying, “There is a me inside closer to myself than I,” calls out to me even louder now; and even though the sound comes from afar as yet, just like a baby starts to grow, it will flourish and talk to me, with a voice loud and clear.
Gillette / Sales Training (33) Participated in the Following: Improve Communication with Self and Others, Enlightened Man-Woman Relationships

Fatih Gonc: To have these awarenesses at the age of 30, to take the first step towards an enlightened life so late made me sad. I could have come to these workshops earlier. How nice it would have been then. But I don’t think I am that late to start discovering the me inside closer to myself than I. Now I know that I am a 100% responsible for everything that happens to me, for everything I go through; thus I will no longer blame others. If I only reflect this realization into my life and relationships, that will be a huge gain; not to mention all the other treasures that this workshop offers for personal development.
Gillette / Sales Director (30) Participated in the Following: Improve Communication with Self and Others, Enlightened Man-Woman Relationships

Tanju Polat: As our surroundings change, human relations become more and more important. I have usually blamed others: my family, my country and other people. I always thought I was right. I did not try to understand, only to be understood. I was reactional. Now, it is time to be proactive. These workshops have allowed me to look inward regarding communication problems I have been having. It is time to transition to intentional sufficiency, and from there to unconscious sufficiency. You have shown me that my enemies were in fact my mentors; they were stewards on my way to developing the self. You have reminded me that the path to unconditional love first passes through loving myself and then through reflecting this to all around me.
Gillette / Chief of Sales (31) Participated in the Following: Improve Communication with Self and Others, Enlightened Man-Woman Relationships

Ahmet Tekin Ozdenel: From now on, I believe I can find happiness, freedom and inner peace much more easily in my life. I will no longer try to find solutions to my problems by attempting to change the external environment or others, but by introspecting. I think these workshops will help those around me get their fair share of this happiness too. Nil and Saim, thank you very much.
Gillette / Marketing Director (40) Participated in the Following: Improve Communication with Self and Others, Enlightened Man-Woman Relationships

Hasim Toktan: My first thoughts about this workshop were that it was just another workshop on relationships. But I realized there was something to it when I found out that the hours of instruction were from 10 am . to 10 pm . Of course, this realization was confirmed later, at the end of the workshop. When you said that we would see the results of these workshops very quickly, I thought to myself, “Don’t kid me, I’ve been to so many trainings with similar promises, what makes this one different?” But you were right. Thank you for all you have done for me.
Gillette (38) Participated in the Following: Improve Communication with Self and Others, Enlightened Man-Woman Relationships

Isik Erbek: First time I experienced anything like this. At first, I was very surprised. But being able to discuss everything openly and honestly in this warm environment (like a home) with my work colleagues (most of whom are friends anyway) was very relaxing and comforting. It was an experience next to none to see how much (or how little) I really knew about myself, my colleagues and friends. Learning new things everyday made me wonder what I would learn tomorrow. Realizing that people are not sincere with each other in real life, and understanding that everyone hides behind their armor was very impressive. The fact that people were very open here and readily let go of their day-to-day defenses shows how successful these workshops and their instructors are. The workshops are of very high quality and very rich due to their content, the way they are presented and the two respectable friends that deliver them. I would like to thank Nil and Saim for hosting us so elegantly and the caring friendship that they gave us. I feel gratitude to them for sharing a bit of their prized treasures with us. May love and good things always be with you.
Gillette / Managing Chief of Sales (36) Participated in the Following: Improve Communication with Self and Others, Enlightened Man-Woman Relationships

Metin Ozdemir: In this workshop, I learned about my personality and faced my subconscious. At the very least, I started to get to know myself. I have learned to analyze my family structure, my spouse, my kids, my family, my friends and business partners, and to understand their personalities. I now better know how to interact with them. I have learned that I should stay away from pessimistic, weary, stressful elements in life, and not to lock them away in my subconscious. I have learned that I should live life freely, without restrictions, and independently; the way I want to live it. And now, I have torn down all parts of my armor which I used to think were my values. I saw that they were gnawing away at me all my life. I cannot wait to see all the things that will make life different for me as I live. Thank you.
Gillette / Field Chief of Sales (33) Participated in the Following: Improve Communication with Self and Others, Enlightened Man-Woman Relationships

N. Yigit Surel: Thank you for being catalysts on our journey towards the self. Thank you for your hugs, your friendliness, your tenderness and your smile. Thank you for reminding me that my life is in my hands and my hands only. Thank you for reminding me that the universe reveals itself as reflections within me. I love you.
Gillette (31) Participated in the Following: Improve Communication with Self and Others, Enlightened Man-Woman Relationships

Goktay Emral: When I looked at the syllabus, the fist thing that struck me was the hours of instruction. I thought this might be an unorthodox workshop. I was right. I thought I had lived life fully until now. Instead, I found out that I had made my life a slave to time. I will make a fresh start and take this opportunity to live the rest of my life with the values that I should. I will look at the whole picture, not just the tip of the iceberg. Now what are important are my goals, not my means.
Gillette / Chief of Sales (40) Participated in the Following: Improve Communication with Self and Others, Enlightened Man-Woman Relationships

Aylin Zor: You showed me where the circle of my spirit and the lines of my mind intersect. You showed me how wide I can spread the wings of my spirit. And you helped me understand why the drums are rolling within: drums that I had not heeded so far. God knows how many fences I put up between myself and my spirit. I await with excitement and thrill for you to show me the real “me.” I just can’t wait for the upcoming episodes. Because I am already loving the real “me” so much that I can’t walk away from this adventure. And I consider you two my companions, my friends.
Gillette / Salesperson (29) Participated in the Following: Improve Communication with Self and Others, Enlightened Man-Woman Relationships

Nuhtan Nuhoglu: A great workshop that helps one understand the self and others, teaches a person that he or she is important, helps them face their past, increases awareness, and rebels against blindly followed norms and wisdoms.
Gillette / Director of Sales for the Marmara Region. (38) Participated in the Following: Improve Communication with Self and Others, Enlightened Man-Woman Relationships

Ethem Eroglu: I had great fun. Actually, after the first part where we introduced ourselves to each other, this was more like life itself rather than a workshop. I perceived it as the ideal life I would like to live rather than a training. The knowledge gained here has provided deep insights into how to develop myself. I am sure it will be particularly useful for my marriage. I think I will be a happier person tomorrow. May we have many more meaningful awarenesses.
Gillette / Chief of Sales (37) Participated in the Following: Improve Communication with Self and Others, Enlightened Man-Woman Relationships

Filiz Kimiz: On the road to reaching my goals, I realized that I was making mountains out of molehills when it came to the small problems in life, and wasting time on these rather than concentrating on the real goal. I was after the small rewards gained from solving the small problems. This workshop is striking and illuminating. It is the first step for everyone wanting to know themselves and to clarify their goals in life. Nil and Saim, you are both so sweet. For me, you are the ideal, and incredible, couple.
Salesperson (27) – Participated in the Following: Improve Communication with Self and Others

Deniz Celikkol:
In only sixteen days….
From questions to answers;
From dilemmas to solutions;
From uneasiness to peace;
From loneliness to friendships;
FROM DARKNESS TO LIGHT…!
Student (16) – Participated in the Following: Improve Communication with Self and Others, Enlightened Man-Woman Relationships, Enhancing Self-Esteem, Meeting The Self

Soner Arica: From beginning to end, this was a comprehensible, useful and practical workshop. I commend the intellectual ability and effort that must have gone into its preparation. I won’t forget what it has taught me, and will practice what I’ve learned-I promise.
Singer (36) – Participated in the Following: Improve Communication with Self and Others

Muberra Yenisar: It was over in a blink. The workshop was very impressive in every respect; only thing is that it was too short. With the exercises and the meditation that we did, my life, my worldview, my feelings, choices, future, present, everything fell into place; everything became clear. Rushed thoughts and volatile emotions left their place to serenity and peace. The comfort I feel all over is very relaxing and constructive. What I experienced here will affect me deeply from now on, I believe. Here, I think I made important inroads into possibly the hardest thing on earth: gaining insights into communication with the self. I feel I am no longer the person I was yesterday. Especially in a world where there are so many communication-based problems, I really appreciate your efforts. I can see that organizing such a workshop-besides the organization skills that it requires-must feed off a life’s worth of experience in this field. What you do here I think is of international quality. Given the short history that interactive education methods have in our country, I feel myself lucky to have attended such a workshop. Thank you both.
Medical Doctor (36) – Participated in the Following: Improve Communication with Self and Others, NLP, Enlightened Man-Woman Relationships, Enhancing Self-Esteem, Meeting The Self , Your Shadow / Your Light

Gunes Ali Yilmaz: When I came to the Communication Workshop, I did not know what to expect. I could only guess. Though I had read participants’ testimonials on the website, actually experiencing what they had written about impressed me a good deal. Here, I experienced life itself. Sometimes, thunderbolts struck inside me, sometimes, flowers bloomed. I realized I was growing, developing. I found a new me (or a me that had become lost behind all the years). I feel I will continue life as me. Thank you.
Sculptor (27) – Participated in the Following: Improve Communication with Self and Others, NLP, Enlightened Man-Woman Relationships, Enhancing Self-Esteem, Meeting the SELF

Tamer Sezer: Man – Woman. Two concepts around which the world revolves. How often we use these words in daily life without thinking what they really mean. When a man / woman decides to become part of another’s life (that is, to start a relationship), this is really a decision that needs to be questioned much more deeply than one would think at first. It is a responsibility. How difficult it is to start a healthy and strong relationship without first putting oneself in the other’s shoes, trying to understand what they feel, how they do things, what they think. It’s to realize that it’s like trying to run an uphill race. And ultimately, growing up a bit.
Medical Doctor (39) – Participated in the Following: Improve Communication with Self and Others, Enlightened Man-Woman Relationships, Enhancing Self-Esteem, Meeting The Self, NLP

Fahriye Sezer: I used to live life as it came, sometimes aware, sometimes not. After attending this workshop, I saw my awareness increase, I realized that my decisions can be better informed, more clear and determined. This made life feel easier. I felt empowered and comforted. Thank you very much, Nil and Saim, you contributed greatly to this feeling.
Medical Doctor (39) – Participated in the Following: Improve Communication with Self and Others, Enlightened Man-Woman Relationships, Enhancing Self-Esteem, Meeting The Self, NLP

Aysil Tokcan: No disappointments at all. In terms of their knowledge and ability to lead, the instructors were very competent. We were sailing in dangerous waters, dealing with such issues as emotions where the alarms could have gone off at any moment. You gave me the knowledge; now it’s my responsibility to apply what I’ve learned. Let’s see if I will have a fulfilling life too. I will put in all my energy to make it so. May you be with love and energy.
Attorney (35) – Participated in the Following: Improve Communication with Self and Others, NLP, Enlightened Man-Woman Relationships, Enhancing Self-Esteem, Meeting the SELF

Gulbin Ege Tanyeli: In these workshops, I found out about the types of mistakes I made when communicating with others. And I became aware of the existence of flow communication. I also learned about ways to make a batter Gulbin without rejecting the Gulbin of before. I feel I have made a lot of progress. But I see that some things are only beginning to fall into place. Thank you for bringing me back to earth. With love.
Physiotherapist (33) – Participated in the Following: Improve Communication with Self and Others, NLP, Enlightened Man-Woman Relationships, Enhancing Self-Esteem, Meeting the SELF

Nurgun Guler: I have lived for years believing that my personality was my weakness. Now I know this is who I am. I am ready to accept my personality as it is, and I love myself as I am. I have the necessary hardware now to communicate in a healthy way with others. I think I will be more social and also happier. Thank you for all you have done.
Architect (42) – Participated in the Following: Improve Communication with Self and Others, NLP, Enlightened Man-Woman Relationships, Enhancing Self-Esteem, Meeting the SELF

Muzaffer Peker: People should come to these workshops-several times-starting at childhood. I think our society could use it if these workshops were mandatory, not just for volunteering groups. I think you should plan to do this without further delay. The presentation is high-level and the details are well thought-out. The workshops are well-organized.
Commerce (36) – Participated in the Following: Improve Communication with Self and Others, Enlightened Man-Woman Relationships, Meeting the SELF

Mete Topcuoglu: Most important of all, this workshop delivered all that it promised. Personally, I think this will be of much greater use to me than I anticipated. So much so, that it’ll take me at least another two days to fully digest what I learned and the effect it has had on me. On the journey to developing myself and changing, there is no doubt that this has speeded up things immensely. Even before the workshop was over, I was thinking I would attend the other workshops in the series. Now, I know I will.
Advertising, Product Design and Implementation (33) – Participated in the Following: Improve Communication with Self and Others, Meeting the SELF

Tuna Eren: I learned so much about the communication problems I’ve been having with people. Thank you. See you at the next workshop.
Civil Engineer (31) – Participated in the Following: Improve Communication with Self and Others, NLP, Enlightened Man-Woman Relationships, Enhancing Self-Esteem, Meeting the SELF

Mehmet Guden: The only address when it comes to finding the self. I know these workshops will be a beacon for us for the rest of our lives. There is nothing negative I can think about them. I learned so much. This is mostly because of the two wonderful people who give the workshops. I was impressed by the change this place created in my wife, that’s why I came here. I was surprised to see there could be such positive experiences in life. I feel very lucky and special.
Textiles / Export (33) – Participated in the Following: Improve Communication with Self and Others, NLP, Enlightened Man-Woman Relationships, Enhancing Self-Esteem, Meeting the SELF

Besriye Guden: I was able to reach my inner self and this helped me redeem my husband. I am living my second honeymoon with my first husband. I am so happy. I feel endless gratitude. Saim and Nil, I love you very much.
Interior Decorator (35) – Participated in the Following: Improve Communication with Self and Others, NLP, Enlightened Man-Woman Relationships, Enhancing Self-Esteem, Meeting the SELF

Pinar Kuyumcu: Such deep emotional connection can happen among very few people. This is an institution that can bring 18 total strangers together, and bring them so face to face with their selves and create so much awareness in them. What else can I say? This is therapy. This is an understand-yourself-and-life center. Dear Nil and Saim, you are great. Thank you.
Banker (31) – Participated in the Following: Improve Communication with Self and Others, NLP

Lizet Moreno: Dear Nil and Saim, these workshops felt very real throughout. The right kind of education given by the right kind of people like you bears fruit. I am sure everyone who sees those fruits out there wants to join you. You are a very large family. I would like to attend the other workshops too. I have already contributed to your family; now I want to see myself bearing more fruit. You are very productive and you proliferate in life. I can see that knowledge is very important. Also, being able to give is a virtue. This is a virtuous and expanding education. Thank you.
HP Turkey Service and Sales (33) – Participated in the Following: Improve Communication with Self and Others, Enlightened Man-Woman Relationships, Enhancing Self-Esteem, Meeting The Self

Figen Yanik: Dear Nil and Saim, I am so happy to have met you. Even though I am one of Nil Gun’s seasoned apprentices, learning, developing, laughing and having fun together has no age. I cherish the concepts of “love and communication,” and this two-day workshop proved this to me once more. Thank you for being so perseverant and sharing on this fun and educational week. Good luck to you.
Journalist (36) – Participated in the Following: Improve Communication with Self and Others

Derya Bay: I’ve never had such a satisfying educational experience. Who but you could make people become so aware? I have also started to view my profession differently. I am excited-kind of like I was reborn. I cannot wait till tomorrow to be part of life again. I love you.
Medical Doctor (32) – Participated in the Following: Improve Communication with Self and Others, NLP, Enlightened Man-Woman Relationships, Enhancing Self-Esteem

Aysegul Meric: These two days I’ve spent in the miracle-makers’ shop were full of new awarenesses. I now know my full potential. I leave this place as a person who loves life and people, who is free and has inner peace, and who values herself. I know tomorrow morning, I will enjoy life more than I do today. I will understand others better and I will realize my potential. Miracles can’t be told about, only experienced.
Bersay Communications and Consultancy Firm (37) – Participated in the Following: Improve Communication with Self and Others, NLP, Enlightened Man-Woman Relationships, Enhancing Self-Esteem

Aylin Taskiner: To me, this is more than a workshop; it is a life experience itself. I found here so much more than I expected. I entered this space thinking that perhaps I was in for two very boring days. Instead, I depart with the satisfaction of having tasted a drop of infinite wisdom about life and the human being. Thank you, everyone.
Communications Consultant (29) – Participated in the Following: Improve Communication with Self and Others

Mustafa Baygan: “You know how it is: like when you know something but can’t quite describe it. At the beginning, that’s how you feel. After a while, you start to open up. You find out about the errors in the things you thought you knew. It’s like a blind and mute person suddenly beginning to see and talk again. That’s how I would try to describe it. At 53 years of age, it’s great to be able to see my weaknesses and flaws, but it eats me up to realize that I have lost so much time. Humans are both hungry and thirsty for learning. In two words: EXTREMELY USEFUL .”
Businessman (53) Participated in the Following: Improve Communication with Self and Others

Kenan Turk: This is the first address for anyone who has lost sense of direction in life. You will be given a map of life here, and with it you will instill happiness in yourself and those around you. Kuraldisi is the passage from knowledge to sageness. It is the source of love-which you had lost in the dark and will rediscover in the light.
Pharmacist (40) – Participated in the Following: NLP, Improve Communication with Self and Others, Enlightened Man-Woman Relationships, Enhancing Self-Esteem, Meeting The Self, Your Shadow / Your Light

Emel Yurtsever: A wonderful journey. Must participate if one wants to know the self, and to lead a happy and satisfied life.
Chemist (27) – Participated in the Following: Enlightened Man-Woman Relationships

Aylin Ataman: I found out about my freedom, my wishes, my goals, and my unique characteristics. I got to know exactly what I wanted. I experienced the happiness of becoming aware of all this. It was a wonderful workshop. I want to thank Nil and Saim for being happy, and for sharing this with us and instilling the same happiness in us.
Health Center Owner (47) – Participated in the Following: Enlightened Man-Woman Relationships, NLP, Improve Communication with Self and Others, Enhancing Self-Esteem, Being Yourself

Saime Once: Amazing results. You were so successful in teaching us that the changes were immediately visible in those around me as well as in the other participants. I congratulate you, I respect you and I thank you. You truly give these workshops your all. You are in this with all your heart. Because of your perseverance, love, genuine involvement, and willingness to learn yourselves, the results are satisfying and very useful. Thank you for making me see my ideals so clearly.
University Economics Teacher (39) – Participated in the Following: Enlightened Man-Woman Relationships, NLP, Improve Communication with Self and Others, Enhancing Self-Esteem, Meeting the SELF

Nilgun Peker: On the deck of the ship named Kuraldisi, I sail towards infinite wisdom, determined. Our captains have charted the voyage so well that wherever I go, through whichever storm, I know my ship will not sink. You teach us that in the ocean of knowledge, each drop blends in with the others to make the ocean.
Kindergarten Teacher (25) – Participated in the Following: Enlightened Man-Woman Relationships, NLP, Improve Communication with Self and Others, Enhancing Self-Esteem, Meeting the SELF

Sinan Evman: Fantastic!!! Thank God for you! I think if only one percent of the world’s population attended these workshops, rape, war, depression, etc. . would be wiped off the face of the earth.
Civil Engineer (32) – Participated in the Following: Enlightened Man-Woman Relationships, Enhancing Self-Esteem, Meeting the SELF, NLP, Your Shadow / Your Light

Neslihan Ozdenboyaci: Firstly, I am so happy to have met you. You are always with me: in my head, in my heart.. You’ve given me so much; I don’t know how to thank you. I learned a lot in the Enlightened Man-Woman Relationships workshop; it was also due to this workshop that I ended my tortured relationship of long years. I think I was in this relationship to show myself what kind of relationship I did not want to be in. I needed to go through this phase. Perhaps I used myself as a medium of expression. But these have ended, as of tonight. Because you have shown me what I want, what I deserve. I see things clearly now. And I will never make do with anything less. Dear Saim and Nil, you are people I am proud to be with; I have great fun with you. When I look at you, I see love, respect, trust, and countless other wonderful emotions all woven into one. I think you are the best role models that there could be. Many kisses.
Public Relations (31) – Participated in the Following: Enlightened Man-Woman Relationships, NLP, Improve Communication with Self and Others, Enhancing Self-Esteem

Dilek Yaras: I went on a journey towards the self with an exceptionally nice, open and cultured group. For two days, we laughed and cried together. This was a journey to understand life and to steer it in new directions, accomplished by sharing one’s secrets with a trustworthy and select group of friends. Thanks to our seasoned helmsmen, Nil and Saim, we made it to our destinations safe and sound. I can’t wait